Abuse often starts out gradually, and over time the abuser exerts more and more control over his or her victim’s life. Signs of abuse may include the following:
• Constant belittling, insulting and threats to intimidate and whittle down the victim’s self-esteem
• Shouting, throwing objects and threatening to harm pets or children or destroy personal property
• A feeling of having to always “walk on eggshells” to avoid upsetting the abuser
• Restricting the victim from having access to transportation, money, phone, Internet or employment
• Not allowing the victim to see or talk to family members and friends
It is also important to note that even if an abuser has never physically struck a victim, physical violence may occur without warning at any time.